hurt so bad
Generally, I try to avoid get self righteous about my mom's death, but sometimes I just can't help but get offended.
Some asshole posted a list of reasons why you neglect your mother, and for some reason it just struck a nerve in me. It's not that I believe I am above reproach, or better than everyone else. I think it's more because I do feel like I didn't do enough for her. I mean I have enough problems dealing with my guilt, and I don't need some anonymous person online telling me I was never good to her. I put a copy of it down below, if you click on "read more" you'll see what I'm talking about. Basically I told the guy he could shove it up his ass. - Want to see dennisjudd.com get attacked my mars? How about nuke's?
- Credit card theft with a happy ending is a rare thing indeed.
- I am a Japanese school teacher. Very interesting read!
- Zip decode. Enter a zipcode and it will narrow down the location after each number you typed. Very interesting.
- Caught on camera: Truck veers out of control. Nobody killed, thats the amazing part.
- Batterylife Activator. Basically it's a sticker you put on a battery that's supposed to make it work longer, better, and faster. It generates the same results if you put it on your naughty bits as well.....which is nothing. About as useful as those bullshit radiation absorbing cell phone stickers.
Some asshole posted a list of reasons why you neglect your mother, and for some reason it just struck a nerve in me. It's not that I believe I am above reproach, or better than everyone else. I think it's more because I do feel like I didn't do enough for her. I mean I have enough problems dealing with my guilt, and I don't need some anonymous person online telling me I was never good to her. I put a copy of it down below, if you click on "read more" you'll see what I'm talking about. Basically I told the guy he could shove it up his ass. - Want to see dennisjudd.com get attacked my mars? How about nuke's?
- Credit card theft with a happy ending is a rare thing indeed.
- I am a Japanese school teacher. Very interesting read!
- Zip decode. Enter a zipcode and it will narrow down the location after each number you typed. Very interesting.
- Caught on camera: Truck veers out of control. Nobody killed, thats the amazing part.
- Batterylife Activator. Basically it's a sticker you put on a battery that's supposed to make it work longer, better, and faster. It generates the same results if you put it on your naughty bits as well.....which is nothing. About as useful as those bullshit radiation absorbing cell phone stickers.
Y u neglect ur mom!!! :(
When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.
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When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.
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When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with Love.
You thanked her by tossing the plate on the floor.
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When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.
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When you were 5, ! she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest.
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When you were 6, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, IM NOT GOING!
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When you were 7, she bought you a x-udball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbors window.
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When you were 8, she handed you an ice-cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over her lap.
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When you were 9, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering it to practice.
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When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day from soccer to
gymnastics to one birthday party to another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 11, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking her to sit in a different row.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 12,she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 13, she suggested a haircut.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.
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When you were 14, she paid a month away at the summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.
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When you were 15, she came from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 16, she taught you how to drive a car.
You thanked her by taking every chance you could.
************************************************** *************************************
When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all the night.
************************************************** *************************************
When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying outside the dorm so you wouldnt be embarrassed in front of your friends.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 20, she asked you whether you are seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, Its none of your business.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 21, she suggested you certain careers.
You thanked her by saying, I dont want to be like you.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe!
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about plans for the
future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, Muuhh-ther, please!
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 25, she helped you to pay for your wedding.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked ! her by telling her, Things are different now.
************************************************** ***************************************
When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relatives birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were really busy right now.
************************************************** ***************************************
When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.
************************************************** ***************************************
And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came
crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART.
************************************************** ****************************************
You thanked her by crying all night long.
************************************************** *********************************
When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.
************************************************** *********************************
When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with Love.
You thanked her by tossing the plate on the floor.
************************************************** *********************************
When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.
************************************************** *********************************
When you were 5, ! she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest.
************************************************** *********************************
When you were 6, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, IM NOT GOING!
************************************************** **********************************
When you were 7, she bought you a x-udball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbors window.
************************************************** **********************************
When you were 8, she handed you an ice-cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over her lap.
************************************************** **********************************
When you were 9, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering it to practice.
************************************************** **********************************
When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day from soccer to
gymnastics to one birthday party to another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 11, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking her to sit in a different row.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 12,she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 13, she suggested a haircut.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 14, she paid a month away at the summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 15, she came from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
************************************************** ***********************************
When you were 16, she taught you how to drive a car.
You thanked her by taking every chance you could.
************************************************** *************************************
When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all the night.
************************************************** *************************************
When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying outside the dorm so you wouldnt be embarrassed in front of your friends.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 20, she asked you whether you are seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, Its none of your business.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 21, she suggested you certain careers.
You thanked her by saying, I dont want to be like you.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe!
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about plans for the
future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, Muuhh-ther, please!
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 25, she helped you to pay for your wedding.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.
************************************************** **************************************
When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked ! her by telling her, Things are different now.
************************************************** ***************************************
When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relatives birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were really busy right now.
************************************************** ***************************************
When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.
************************************************** ***************************************
And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came
crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART.
************************************************** ****************************************
Comments
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I don't get it either, but maybe we should all wait till we're 50?
Did it say how many people we should send it to, including our moms - dead or alive?
Posted by: Anonymous | May 18, 2006 11:50 AM
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That anonymous person can thank their mother for raising them to be the wonderful asset to society that they are.
Posted by: Danne | May 18, 2006 11:50 AM
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There were no directions for distribution....not that I would have cared honestly. Unless of course you plan on turning me into a puppet.
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Posted by: Anonymous | May 18, 2006 11:50 AM
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I just don't get what would motivate a person to write out a list like that. You can't just guilt a person into being a better one, it's a very poor motivator and at best only generates shallow results.
Posted by: Dennis Judd | May 18, 2006 11:50 AM